… And since when is good advice criticism?”
“When it comes from your mother.“
For Better or Worse Comic July 9, 2024
Our children need a mother. As they age, they want a mother that doesn’t belong to them. They want the advice we would give—just not from our mouths.
When my children were younger, I found it odd that young adults seemed to be trading mothers. My cousin didn’t ask my aunt for advice. However, my cousin’s best friend did. My cousin turned to the mother of another friend.
Why?
My aunt listened sympathetically to the problems of her daughter’s peers—more sympathetically than she listened to my cousin.
Why?
Along the way, I learned that by the time my children really needed my counsel, baggage had accumulated on both sides. Even when baggage wasn’t an issue, as healthy adults who were finding their own identity, my sons wanted privacy. And a mother who wasn’t overly interested.
So, what’s a mother to do?
I pray that my children seek godly counsel. I pray that the right person is put in their path at the opportune time.
… But wisdom is with those who seek counsel.
Proverbs 13:10
