Homeschooling, Parenting

Writing Advice: Quasi Podcasts

I attended a Smithsonian American Art Museum Teacher Workshop because I liked the exhibition, Georgia O’Keefe and Ansel Adams: Natural Affinities. However, fifteen years later, I remember the writing advice more than the art. Whether your children have writing assignments, or you have reports, the following might be helpful.

Smithsonian workshop participants were given MP3 players for classroom use—cheap ones but still a free toy—and told to replicate an experiment in a Bethesda school. Those students wrote about works of art, recorded their work, listened, rewrote, and rerecorded. The steps were repeated until the students were satisfied with their quasi podcasts. 

The Smithsonian employee in charge thought it was “educational bubblegum,” and therefore, was surprised with the process and the results. Students heard mistakes that they missed when they read their work. This was especially true when a word was overused. By listening, students also quickly realized when more explanation was needed.

The school emphasized working in groups. One interesting result was that students were more willing to offer helpful advice when they listened to a peer’s work compared to reading a peer’s work. I wonder if it’s because listening is slower than reading.

Have you received unusual academic advice?

Relationships

Anger that Can Be Trusted

As you consider those who have wronged you, let Jesus be angry on your behalf. His anger can be trusted.

Dane C.  Ortland, Gentle and Lowly

I texted this quote to a friend who is angry. She has righteous anger regarding evil done to her. I thought Ortland’s words would help.

One evening—after realizing I was angry with a person who had been rude and careless with things I hold dear—I realized that quote applied to me. I had thought I was annoyed, but now I had to deal with my newfound anger. I thought of being on guard. I thought of practical steps I should take in this relationship. And then, I saw my text on my phone screen. 

The most helpful plan was to allow Christ to be angry on my behalf—to trust his anger and remedy. Only he had the perfect solution. My responsibility was not negated, but I no longer carried a burden.

For the anger of man does not produce the righteous of God.   James 1:20 (ESV)

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Coping With Jealousy

For you are still of the flesh. For while there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not of the flesh and behaving only in a human way?

1 Corinthians 3:3 (ESV)

How have I dealt with jealousy? Sometimes well and sometimes not.

Let’s start with the not. I had something someone wanted. A gift from God. An older, godly woman advised me to apologize. Apologize? For something I had been given? I talked with my husband, and he agreed that it didn’t seem right to accommodate jealousy with an apology.

In retrospect, although I was sympathetic, I never specifically said I was sorry the other person didn’t have what I did.

A soft answer turns away wrath…

Proverbs 15:1a (ESV)

Decades later, for excellent reasons, I was given an heirloom that another wanted. Very much. By then, I was more savvy concerning jealousy and knew the heirloom would be a forever barrier. I wanted my relationship more, and so, I gave the heirloom to another relative, who met the requirements of the giver.

Another time, I confronted the person and later cried. Unfortunately, I’ve learned that coping with another’s jealousy is hard.

Any wisdom for dealing with jealousy?

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Who Can Stand?

Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?

Proverbs 27:4 (ESV)

One thing I wish I had known was the power of jealousy. Who can stand before jealousy? Along the way, I learned that the answer is “No one.”

I have had two people jealous of me—that I am aware of. For years, I did not stand.

Thankfully, the LORD rescued me. One woman acknowledged her sin and its effects on my family. Then, she apologized.

The Lord is my light and salvation; Whom shall I fear?

Psalm 27:1a (ESV)

Proverbs 6:34 explains why we cannot stand alone against jealousy.

For jealousy makes a man furious, and he will not spare when he takes revenge.

Proverbs 6:34 (ESV)

My family—especially my children—have the lingering effects of the revenge of these two people.

… jealousy is as fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the LORD.

Song of Solomon 8:6B (ESV)

I was blindsided because meek, seeming loving people flashed like fire behind my back when their jealousy was aroused.

I wish I had been on guard and able to extinguish their jealousy.

Be watchful, dear friends.

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Happiness

 I have always admired you and pray for your happiness. With love, Your friend—

Letter, February 14, 2014

Why did I feel like crying? (Hint: It was not for being admired.)

Photo emailed to my friend, July 4, 2019.

You look happy. I always prayed for your happiness.

Email, July 4, 2019

 

Happiness.

Why was I touched? Why are others touched when I tell them what my friend said?

Praying for my basic needs seems reasonable. Why does praying for my happiness seem extravagant—as if someone handed me the deed to my favorite beach house on Emerald Isle?

I met my friend in fifth grade and our lives were intertwined until I moved to a distant city when I was twenty-one. Many times, I was unhappy. I never said I was. I only shared a bit. However, my friend never forgot. That fact makes her words more special.

Recently, I told another friend this story, and then, we wished each other happiness as we parted.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change. James 1:17